I usually meet for 5-7 sessions with couples who are planning marriage. We start with a family map called a Genogram and then, using the Prepare/Enrich Couple Inventory, look at places of agreement and places of difference. The inventory looks at things like attitudes towards finances, the roll of family and friends, parenting, and personal habits as well as personality traits and relationship dynamics. From there we develop homework assignments and I gather information and resources that will enhance your relationship in the areas that need attention.